Tuesday, June 9, 2009

When sperm donors return

What should one expect when they leave a child at birth and never parented them?? Definately not a parent child relationship. Expecially if the child has had a father since they were six months old. That has raised them and been there for them almost their entire life. How can you come back 15 years later ready to be a father cause it took you that long to get your life together. Proclaiming that you have now found God and want to do what is right. You gave her up for adoption at age 4 and her father is in deed her father in every aspect. So, why come back now and try to disrupt her life?? When you know you are suppose to wait until she is 18 and wants contact with you. Now that you are missing something and feeling a void in your life its more important for you to be hasty and do it now. You didn't get the response you were expecting. Why am I not surprised. She has no void at this time and says maybe oneday she will meet you but, for now you are just seen as that person whom she shares DNA. Someone she has never known and feels at the moment doesn't need to know. She doesn't wonder about you because I shared the positive stories about you and photos. Some how the negative and feeling of you being an ex convict doesn't make one want to run and meet you to become a part of your life since thats what you chose over parenting. You say she is flesh of your flesh your seed. Thats all there is. It takes a lot to be a father and donating DNA doesn't classify you as that. Your philosophies and bible thumbing does not make the situation seem better or make me run to make her want to know you. You've done nothing diffrent from any other excon to me. Whewn I mentioned support you disregaurded every part of that paragraph and never spoke of it. Though you feel its important to know you its just as important for you to contribute financial support. I knew that would never happen. Oh, so now your content and ready to wait until shes 18. I knew it all along you were singing that same old song. Its not about her its about you. As always.

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