Why can't I be me!

It's really irritating when people judge you on appearences and not by character. How many times have we heard the term "looks can be deceiving." The quote is true we do pay more attention to the "vices than the virtues of people." It's so hard to treat people the way you want to be treated when they are not doing it in return. What do you do?? Do you become passive or agressive?? I have never been an ass kisser and won't start it today. Everyone should have to run the same coarse and finish it the same as well. Nothing to see here I'm just venting to keep from screaming and waking up the kids. The show is over.